The 5 Biggest Challenges to Writing

“Feel the fear and do it anyway.” — Susan Jeffers

For many of you, the idea of writing poetry feels exciting but also intimidating. Maybe you’ve always been drawn to words, but when you finally sit down with a blank page, you feel frozen. Or maybe life is so busy with work, family, and constant responsibilities that carving out time for yourself feels impossible. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

In fact, these are some of the most common challenges I hear from people who are curious about expressive writing or writing poetry but haven’t yet taken the leap.

Let’s explore five of these challenges now:

 1. “What if I’ve lost touch with my creativity and it doesn’t come back?”

I hear you. Many people feel disconnected from their creative selves, especially after years of focusing on work, family, and responsibilities. But your creative spark isn’t gone, it’s simply waiting to be rekindled. Through curiosity, playfulness, and an open mind, trust me, you’ll find that spark again. Plus, you might be surprised by how quickly creativity will light you up again once you give it space.

2. “I’m already so busy… what if this just feels like another obligation?”

I know. The last thing you need is more pressure on your to-do list. That’s why expressive writing is designed to feel like soul care rather than homework. Think of it as giving yourself a breath of fresh air or a big hug throughout your busy week. You can write as much or as little as works for you. Even a short writing practice can feel restorative, leaving you more energized and grounded.

3. “I don’t know where to start? I just stare at a blank page and it feels hopeless”

The blank page can feel daunting, but you don’t have to do it alone. With a trusted guide, an encouraging friend or supportive writing group, you can receive prompts, exercises, and invitations that make it easy to get started. Instead of trying to come up with the right words, let the words flow naturally in surprising, perhaps playful ways. Most importantly, try not to judge your words. The most important thing is just getting started.

4. “Will I feel judged if I want to share my writing?”

This is such a common challenge and fear. I know sharing your words can be scary. My heart beats a little faster when I share my words; but, I want to reassure you that if you join any of my offerings or groups, it will be a supportive, judgment-free space. Plus, sharing your writing is always optional. And, if you do choose to share, you will always be met with encouragement, not critique. We’re here to witness each other, not to grade or compare.

5. “What if I want to write but I don’t consider myself a “writer” or “poet”?

Here’s the truth: you don’t need to be a “writer” or a “poet” to put pen to paper. You definitely don’t need a degree in creative writing or years of writing experience. Expressive writing, and writing poetry, is about self-expression, not producing the next great literary work. In my groups & offerings, we celebrate the raw, real, unpolished words that come straight from the heart. The most meaningful writing is the most authentic, not the most polished. 

My Invitation

If you’ve been curious about expressive writing, or writing poetry; but, if any of these challenges have held you back, know that you are not alone. These are common, natural fears but they don’t have to stop you from reconnecting with yourself, your voice, and your creativity.

Your words are waiting. Maybe it’s time to let them speak?

I know these five challenges are just a starting point. If you’re curious about expressive writing and writing poetry but still have other worries or concerns, I’d love to hear them. Drop your questions in the comments below, and I’ll respond to each one. Chances are if you’re wondering about something, someone else is too, and your question might help them feel seen.

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